Seniors Dilemma
Once a person cross-age of sixty-five he or she faces some of the problems like maintaining dignity or identity among the family members or society. It is sometimes very difficult to survive in aged time than in life struggle. The younger people are in search of their own type of people where seniors have not much place. The young people have their own topics, subjects for discussion on which seniors have not much to contribute or to share. Senior's experiences may be out of time or stale before the younger generation. Under the circumstances, Seniors sometimes become irritating forces in the young meeting. It is not younger people but seniors themselves are responsible for creating such a situation.
Therefore seniors have to change their attitude, views and thinking in order that they are being welcomed in younger groups. Seniors should understand that the world does not rest on one. It is better to be a good listener. They have to learn not to correct young people even if they are wrong. There is no question of becoming emotional on controversial subjects. In short, it is better to learn how to make younger people happy. It can help seniors to get easy entry among them and to get identity among them. It is better to love your dignity and your identity rather than your views and thinking.
Seniors should try to keep a low profile and stop bargaining on things as they are not going to make them richer and less poor. But these attitudes will always help them to be welcomed in the crowd of young people. Elders have to learn one more thing to remain cool when someone plays dirty because they very well know their worth. They should not bother who does not value them. It can avoid the bad taste in the meet among young and aggressive people.
In an old age one has to give more importance to relationships than once own ego that makes one life more smooth and happy.
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