Father
Father is the head of the family and he has to take hard decisions in the best interest of the same. Hence he is generally not popular among his family members. In the process father is blame for the bad things happen in family and generally not given due credit for the successful upbringing of the family. Children even shows more loves and affection towards mother.
It is said that father is the mind of Son and heart of Daughter. Besides that he is the vast treasures of experiences. Therefore he may guide the children in the right manner avoiding the wrong ways. Therefore children should not do what father did but they are suppose to act on what he advises or says. The conflicts in some cases starts out of what father is saying and what he is doing or what he did during his life. It will be always in the best interest of chieldern to follow what he says.
Besides that it is found that even Great and Successful fathers had differance of opinion with their sons. i.e. Between Krishna and his son Pradyumna
However the Father and Son relationships many times become matter of controversies. It also happens in day to day life. It is said that-
Krishna---
Krishna Mother is Devaki
But his Father name is missing frequently
The Injustice done to Sita is discussed everywhere
But the pain which Ram went through who knows
Krishna---
Poets, Writers, Thinkers and Saints Sings the Song of Mother
While father is showered with praise rarely
Father who Sacrifices his life Physically, Mentally and Materially
and Carries the burden of family in this world without much credit
Krishna---
Sometime father becomes a Villain in the World
And his very sorry picture is drawn for his benevolent stiffness.
Krishna---
However if fathers are the pillars of the society then mothers are the foundations in the up bringing. They are both important in the positive developments of the mankind.
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